Question by What Dreams May Come: Do you think this is hypocritical?
As a background, in 2004, I was raped and became pregnant with my daughter. I do *NOT* hold this against my daughter in *ANY* way!!! So I moved back in with my mother, and during my pregnancy she *ASKED* to take care of her, and I agreed. So we both still live here, I have been a full-time college student for the past 4 years, and am now graduating in 2 weeks. I haven’t done 100% with her because I don’t want her to get 100% attached and make it harder on her than it has to be when I transfer.

So now my sister moved back in with her husband and their three kids, and she tells me ALLLL the time how I’m a “Monster of a non-mother who is horrible enough to abandon her own flesh and blood.” and “a lazy selfish slob who only cares about that piece of paper and myself. As long as those two are taken care of, apparently my life will all ‘fall into place’ .”

But at the same time SHE does NOTHING but care for her babies like a robot, no outside life or ambitions, and kowtows to her husband. He refuses to let her go to the car by herself, have her own bank acct, pay for anything, won’t make his own food and/or drinks, insists on eating before the kids do, orders her around like a dog, just pompous jerk-ness. He just started at DeVry and goes to classes 2 days a week…which, “of course” means he ” is too busy to work.” Yet, because of both of these factors I tell them theyre living in the 50s and he says “last I knew it wasnt a bad thing for the husband to support the family. Im doing what any other proper family in the church would do.”
So ON TOP OF their “bedazzling” comments about my daughter(including “she has learning disabilities” “shes a tyrant” etc…because shes not fully potty trained or language proficient by 3 years old but still knows how to get what she wants without whining.), she’s taken to denigrating innuendos about “fat women dont attract men and you need to find a father for your daughter before shes scarred for life, so stop eating all our food.”

Long story short…considering our similarities but yet our differences…is it hypocritical of me to say they need to get OUT…like….NOW? Or do you think they have a point?

Best answer:

Answer by The Skull King
Sounds to me that, in the long run, they’ll end up doing more damage than you ever could.

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